Code words or phrases are useful to warn the supporter about events, especially if the violence is escalating and young children or other vulnerable people are present in the home (such as the elderly or disabled)These are messages that seem normal and harmless to others, but have a deeper meaning that you have already agreed on and you can text it to your supporter through the application.If the abuser is checking your phone or email, try using harmless words like "Yogurt became more expensive today.". This indicates to the supporter that the violence or incident is escalating.